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What Is Pegging? The G-Spot

Pegging is a term that has just recently entered a more popular, if not entirely diverse, then at least closely related sexual vocabulary. Pegging is the act of one person using a dildo to penetrate another, most frequently anal. Any gender and any type of anatomy can experience this. Furthermore, pegging need not always involve a strap-on harness at the crotch. For example, thigh harnesses are a terrific option for someone with limited mobility or seeking out novel ways to explore.


Being pegged is fun for everyone. However, those who have prostate can find it much more delightful. This is due to the fact that for individuals with this type of anatomy, the anal channel frequently grants access to a "g-spot" in the anus that is situated about two inches, or to the first knuckle on an average-sized finger, inside the rectum.


Pegging can be a dominance and submission act, but it can also just be about getting physical gratification. Pegging can be an intellectually engaging exercise for some people, possibly reversing the usual penetrator and recipient roles. Others find it to be purely pleasurable on a physical level, with stimulation of the prostate (for those who have one) and/or nerve endings around the sphincter producing other-worldly pleasure that cannot be obtained from vaginal stimulation alone. When you and your partner or partners are allowed to follow a less traditional sexual script, there is something to be said about delightful sex acts that degrade the genitalia. This may allow for a more expansive exploration of what sex and pleasure could mean for you and your partner or partners.


Furthermore, wouldn't you like to give a G-spot in your butthole a go to see what all the excitement is about?


How to Introduce Pegging to Someone for the First Time

Bringing up a new desire to a spouse or partners can be a nerve-wracking process. What if they find it peculiar? What if they decide not to perform it? Just keep in mind that even if this kink or want may not be new to you, it might be to your partner, necessitating some education and discussion. You remember when you didn't know what pegging was, right? Whether you are a peggee hopeful or a potential pegger, consider first expressing your curiosity or interest before approaching your individual with the intention of physically engaging in pegging. After that, allow them time to express any questions or opinions they may have before recommending that you try pegging with them.


Tips on her to introduce this

It's best to discuss pegging—or any other new sexual desire—from a position of openness. I appreciate the planting method because it relieves pressure on one person to feel like they must perform a specific act for another and instead allows them to embrace or enjoy it for themselves. Start by using an unbiased third party, such as this article or a video on pegging


"I had no idea until I read this post that pegging isn't usually a submissive behavior! I became somewhat interested in how my body would enjoy it.

Evidently, prostate stimulation feels extraordinary. Have you ever been interested in that?


Communicate

Tell your partner why you are interested in pegging and how you expect to feel as a result. Start to consider why you are interested in pegging when you are viewing your favorite pegging porn or learning about it in one of our more detailed articles. Are you drawn to the transfer of power? Do particular postures make you the hottest, or are you more attracted to the imagined physical sensations?


Where to start

The easiest method to get warmed up is to enter a few fingers first. We can find our partners' pleasure zones much more quickly with our hands than with a dildo. This offers us more details, and using your fingertips may help you determine the precise placement of the prostate if the person being penetrated may have one. If you decide to attempt it, point your fingers in that direction until you detect a material that is a little firmer than the surrounding tissue. Try out light tapping, sliding your finger from right to left, or applying static pressure to the area. The engorged prostate will undoubtedly make any subsequent dildo insertion more enjoyable after all of this physical stimulation!


The mistake that many people frequently make on their first pegging trip is with the wrong dildo purchase. An overeager pegger will typically select a dildo that is either comically huge or the size of a baby carrot. The teeny small dildos might be similarly challenging for the one pegging them because they are often too short to reach a prostate. You won't even notice that the young carrot has slipped out of your hole until it repeatedly jams your inner thigh, if at all. On the other end of the size range, the phrase "go big or go home" is not required and does not imply success in and of itself.


Booking a prostate massage in London

Consider asking your significant other if they would be interested in participating in a prostate massage if you are interested in getting one. Remember that you may always give it a try alone, but make sure to move gently, do a lot of preparation to relax the anus, and give yourself permission to surrender to the pleasure.


You should make an online reservation with a reputed erotic massage provider if you're interested in learning more about prostate massage and want to have it done by a true expert who understands precisely what they're doing. This will ensure that you are in the capable hands of someone who knows exactly how to massage your prostate for optimal pleasure.




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